Moving out from parent's home into the Mountains in 2022
Everyone wants something from life if you are reading this blog you might also have something which you want to do but there is something that stops us from doing so & this something is not any external force it's Internal which leads me to a Bigger Problem in my case it is.
Hi, I am Harsh Siwach, I am a 22-year-old designer who designs (Packaging, Websites & Illustrations) My goals are very Clear
Make things (Making is my Religion).
Build a Scalable business from making things.
Be in the Mountains
The only problem is me, or my procrastination and I believe this because I am at a point where I am unable to see the value of time & when you don't see the time passing when there is no "drawback" of pushing something from today to tomorrow it starts to feel like everything which needs to be done can be done at any point of time.
I came up with a plan to change everything because the most important thing in my life is my Work & My work is suffering from this habit
Leave parent's house & Move out
Ok, that doesn't sound very bad right like everyone does it so what's special about it? Well, I am moving out of my parent's house with a very limited amount of money & no job yupp this is the real challenge.
I'll be moving to the mountains Because I love mountains & the Living cost is far lower than living in the city.
I'll let you know where am I going to Live?
How am I going to make money to survive?
Business: Yes as I told you I am a designer with skills which can be sold in exchange for money over the Internet soooo,
But, (Yupp there's always a butt)
The problem is I don't have a settled business or clients so now in conclusion not only do I have to live alone & take complete responsibility of myself but I have to start a business as well & I have no money for starting this Business also.
Now, You might be able to see that it is going to be difficult & there is a time cap & If I don't work according to the time, I won't be able to survive. Now that is the real pressure at least for me.
Moving out of parent's house Checklist?
Step 1: Learn to cook basic meals
Step 2: Find a low-cost city to live in, (coz I don't have a lot's money).
Step 3: Travel to the city & Find a basic house for rent.
Step 4: Move In.
Step 5: Start Creating Content.
Step 6: Start finding Clients/Jobs.
Step 7: Start working.
How long will I take to move out of my parent's home?
I am thinking of moving out after 30 to 60 days.
This means I'll move out of my parent's house by the end of the year 2021
And I have planned to keep on publishing this personal blog so that anyone else who is in the same situation as me & can learn from the things I have done whether it's Right or Wrong
to survive this challenge.
Changing Direction of Focus
This is another problem I have which means I am always thinking about the things I am going to do next which makes me very dissatisfied with what I am doing currently & Dissatisfaction leads to early burnouts So my focus will be to do one thing & do that thing as good as I can.
A big problem with always thinking about the next thing is that In our Brain we start thinking that this is a phase directly tied with time we see it as if the time will pass this phase will also end & then I start doing the procrastination but what I have to see is look at things in form of gaining experience & Eligibility
Like you always need to cross Level1 to get on Level 2, But think about it if you could get onto Level 2 after playing on Level 1 for 20 Minutes doesn't matter you lose or win now you will start to give up on even the easiest obstacles because you have an easy way out.
This is how our brain is designed it wants to avoid all the possible pains & attract to all the possible Pleasures.
So What am I going to do for this I will continue to focus on 1 thing which is Building my business Day & Night Ill be focusing on this one thing only As if I will be dead after a year
This is my plan for 2022 just 1 focus building my website & Packaging design Business,
And I have Roughly planned on How my day to day would look like?
4:30 - 5:30 - Writing Personal Blog
5:30 - 6:30 - Walk/Workout
7:00 - 11: 00 - Content Creation (for Business)
1:00 - 1:30 - Walk
1:30 - 5:00 - Sales
5:00 - 5:30 - Walk
5:30 - 7:00 - Sales
9:00 - 10:00 - Read/Have fun
NO BRAG ALERT: I am not bragging about Waking up early I can do that because my parents never allowed me to sleep past 6:00 so I have a practice of 22 years ( at least 15 years or so)
These were my biggest problems which are standing in way of me & my goals & How I am planning to overcome these challenges or I would say Careless behaviour
You know, It feels very weird that I am putting out these things in the world but I think this phase is Normal whenever we transition from this place where we are living under our parent's shadow and then we strike on our own but no one talks about these things which make most of the people feel like they are somehow weird, Yes for sure problems you might have might be completely different from me but we have them and this is the main reason I am putting out this blog
This blog is a Journey of Growing up every day facing challenges & Solving problems thrown by life. I am just the medium to share these things who is adding his flavour.
What is your moving out story?